I think I didn't communicate this clearly. Let me try again. I do not believe in "moving the goal post".
I do believe that God knows what you are thinking and what you are intending, BUT your actions will determine what really happens. Your thoughts and intentions can change and therefore you will not always act out those thoughts and intentions. God will not know what you do until you actually do it, hence the need for God to know if Abraham will follow through on his directive. Actions speak louder than words or thoughts in this case.
So for what God knows of the future is every possible outcome you could have with any action you perform. I do not believe that our lives play out like a movie that there is no changing from the script.
As for Abraham knowing God wasn't going to follow thru, Abraham was given orders and he is carrying them out. What he supposed to do? Turn to God and say "oh yeah right God! You aren't really going to want me to kill my boy. Come on. Do I really have to do what you ask?" Besides, have you not had the intentions to perform some sort of stunt, say skydiving? You really want to go, but just never followed thru and signed up? Same concept here.
You are really hanging on the whole idea that Abraham feared God and and trying to drive home that is what the test was for. I agree that God wanted to know if Abraham feared God and the ultimate test would be to sacrifice his son. BTW, the "fear" here is referring to reverence. Something like a feeling from a son to a father. Respect that this person could really whoop you if they wanted to.
As for Job, I agree that the death of others for the sake of God's bragging rights sounds brutal. I cannot tell you why this happened. I do know it wasn't because God is "wicked" and mean and such.
As for me grasping at straws, you fail to recognize any other aspects of the bible where God does deliver someone out of trouble, does help a widow, does revive a child and gives Job twice as much in the end of his affliction. You are only focused on the "bad" of God and will spit nails at anyone who says God is just, righteous or good to them. A repeating "no it doesn't" is also no way to have a conversation. And in my opinion, you are showing your elite mind set by telling me I am too confident in my beliefs. I know your opinions are rooted in a tainted view of God and the bible and pastors and church leadership, but have you ever been involved in any of that?
This is why I want to know your religious background. Your views are very ignorant if you only cherry pick the scriptures and don't understand the God of the bible. So if it sounds like I'm not listening or moving the goal post, that's not the case. If you have no background with the Bible, then we are not on the same playing field.