Who said life was fair? Who said it is supposed to be fair? Demanding fairness is an excuse for weakness and inability to get more out of life that what is fair. Get a backbone, man, since you already have it. USE IT. Since your subject appears to be money, when are you going to get it that Obama was wrong. There never comes a time when you've made enough money because the money supply is infinite. It only starts getting dragged down when you can no longer afford to pay the lifestyle you desire, so you borrow at excessive rates that make it probable you will never even the balance. Who says you have to spend what you make? Invest. Make money work for you, and live within that amount. Look, I used to have a mortgage, and car payments. I don't anymore. I own them, outright. No, I don't get a tax break for mortgage, but why do I need a tax break? It isn't dollar for dollar, anyway, so why bother? Go into debt to pay less taxes? Is that upside-down. or what?