Those who own the means of production refuse to share even scraps of their wealth
As an investor, I don't want to give my money to strangers. That's like forcing you to give money to kids in Africa.
unless we agree to whatever wage we are offered
The wage is mutually consensual. If you want more money, find a better job.
or be subjected to possible destitution, homelessness and starvation enforced by the implicit threat of police violence by the state.
You need to contribute to society for society to give you something in return. People aren't trying to get into socialist countries the way they are trying to enter America. Clearly, Americans are doing something right that the Chinese aren't.
There is generally excepted to he a disparity in wages with white men getting on average more scraps and more opportunities for employment, advancement and also for being extended credit than a woman or person of color.
Just like Asians get more than whites, and that Jews get more than Christians. Few are advocating for taxing Asians and Jews to pay for White Christains. But this is because people in a free society are allowed to earn what they are able and willing to earn and they can spend or invest that money as they see fit.
It would be impossible to "live like the amish" without first engaging in capitalism to the degree at least which affords you the price of land upon which to build.
Land is not a right. You have to pay for property. Capitalism is an unequally shared blessing. Socialism is an equally shared misery. People aren't moving to communist Cuba, Venezuela, or even left wing Scadinavia the same way they are moving to America.
Jeff Bezos does not deserve more money than a nurse or a first responder or someone who works with disabled children or someone working to make beneficial medicine but he makes more than any of them will make in a life time.
Jeff Bezos contributes way more to society than a nurse (nurse make a lot as well). Jeff Bezos's company sells tens of millions of products to people every single day. A nurse may help out 5 people in a day.
but he doesn't deserve a billion dollars because no one is entitled to more than they need as their neighbors starve.
Other people starving isn't my problem and it isn't yours. If you feel different, your free to sponsor kids in poverty with your own money. You can be as generous as you want with your own money but your a thief if your generous with other people's money, irrespective of how rich they are.
You are no more responsible for this system than I am but that you are gain more benefits under the system than most people did does not make it a good system just one that arbitrarily favors you.
It's not arbitrary. People that contribute more to others get more money from those others. Jeff Bezos gets money from you when you buy something on Amazon at a cheaper price than what the store offers for the same product.