My God is the best rules and laws that I can find.
Who made up those rules and how do you know that you are not skewing them to meet your own way of thinking? Why is it that your rules are so much better and who is to say which is better? Who is the judge?
You believe in a God who is immortal, yet can die. Explain your contradiction.
A quick answer is that the immortal God dwelled in a body of flesh, known as Jesus Christ. The body died, the spirit (God) lives. We all know that we have a soul and a body. Cut our bodies down to just a torso and we do not become less within ourselves. Our soul is who we are and when the body dies, it releases the soul (for lack of a better term).
There is no way that Christians parents would teach their children to use a scapegoat.
You must be kidding about this. The old testament law was all about substituting one for a scapegoat. As for those scriptures you used, it is talking about punishing the one responsible only and not having go on to others just because they are relatives. Also, you are pulling psalms way out of context to fit your ideals.
The biggest difference here is that the "scapegoat" was freely offered. It was not demanded by us. God gave us an opportunity for help, not that I selfishly demanded God to make me saved and he die instead. Look at the intent. It was on God, not us. If God wanted to suffer and die for us, I suppose that's his business.
It takes quite an imagination and ego to think a god would actually die for us, after condemning us unjustly in the firstplace.
Again, you spout off these points as if they are facts. Who says it's immoral or wrong? You? How do you know how a God should act? How do you know what is unjust or not?