Why would they have an excuse? To whom are they beholden that exercising a choice even at their own convenience is characterized as an "excuse"?
Well, the excuse that they would have been exactly the statement you brought up.
"What if they don't know about the consequences of having sex?"
That is not an excuse. When you participate in any activity at all, you should understand what the consequences are for you choosing to participate in that action, whether it be a good consequence or a bad one.
And I understand what you are saying:
"How is making a decision based off of convenience an excuse?"
It would be the same as murdering someone based just off of convenience. If you don't like someone in your life and you murder them to get rid of them, that is wrong. Like let's say you have a roommate. You hate them so much and it inconveniences you. They haven't done anything necessarily wrong; you just don't like them.
In this situation you have no right to kill them, for your own convenience.
Abortion is the same. Your child is stuck with you (for only 9 months) and even though they inconvenience you, you still don't get to kill them, because of that.
We should not base our actions off of our feelings, we should base them off of moral principles.
And I understand the argument that women should have the right to abort their baby's, even if it's wrong, but it's more than wrong, it's murder.
Some decisions that people make are wrong morally, but they still have a right to do them. Murder is an exception to this rule, because it not only affects you, it affects society as a whole, because we can't have everyone going around murdering each other, because that would lead to chaos.
So, people can choose to do certain things, but they have to understand the consequences of those things first before they do them, or rather they should at least try to understand the consequences of what they are doing. They don't have to understand those consequences to do those things, and they should be forced to, but it's a pretty damn smart idea to do so.
Why would it be a stupid decision?
For many reasons:
1.) If you're not ready for a child then you won't be prepared to raise your own child in the best way possible, and given you want the best for them, that won't help you at all if you don't at least have some sort of a plan for what you are doing.
2.) Finacial reasons, because babies' cost a lot of money, and if you're not financially ready for a baby, then that is going to negatively impact you, your husband (if you have one) and the baby.
3.) Mental reasons, because taking care of a baby takes a lot of time and effort, and again given you want what's best for your child, you want to be able to provide for them, care for them, love on them, in order to raise them in the best way possible, and if you're not ready to do that, well that's not going to turn out well for you or your child.
If the female party gets pregnant, and decides not to carry her pregnancy to term, she is not obligated.
At the moment in some states yes, she is not obligated. What I am arguing or rather stating is that she should be obligated to do so, unless some other factor like rape or incest, because to do otherwise would be murder, which might not hold on to legal standards, but it does by moral ones.
I am not arguing what the law says, I am arguing what the law should say, and why by moral standards it should say that, and even further enforce it.
If the point you're implying is that it's a stupid decision because she should always keep in mind that having sex can result in pregnancy, thereby subjecting her to an alleged duty to her unborn child while dismissing her own interest... well that's the point we're disputing.
Yes, and part of being an adult is putting your own interests aside in order to grow in society, family or not.
You can't base all of your decisions on your own interests because then nothing would get done. Now basing, goals off of your own interests is a different story, because with goals you can think about them, and if you have good interests for the future, then goals can help you do that, but making irrational decisions based on pleasure, and what you want is completely ridiculous.
You would have to justify the reason she owes a zygote/embryo/fetus anything.
If you are asking why a mother owes her child anything, then what the hell are you talking about?
A mother owes almost everything to that child. She brought them into this world, the baby did not force itself into this world. It was by a decision she made, that another life was conceived, and that child deserves the right to life. You don't get to be selfish and say, "oh well I don't want the baby, so I get to kill it" (again I am arguing morality standards). People who claim that they are uncomfortable with the decisions that they have made have a right to be uncomfortable, but they do not get to murder a child in order to get out of that uncomforting feeling. And then we find out that even after the abortion, most women regret it, and become even more uncomfortable after the abortion. So, if the goal for abortion is to take away uncomforting feeling from the mother, then I'm sorry but it's going to do the complete opposite for most women.
No. The woman makes the decision to expel it from her womb. It dies because its physiological underdevelopment makes it inviable outside of its mother's womb. Is the mother culpable for the zygote's/embryo's/fetus's incapacity to survive outside her womb before her pregnancy reaches its term?
That is not how abortions work at all. Abortions work by first making a slice through the back of the fetus's head and sucking out all of the brains. Then the limbs are cut off one by one, until the doctor can grab all of the pieces out of the womb.
No. She can give it up for adoption, or abandon it with impunity.
Well, why on earth would you abort it rather than give it up for adoption? It's the least you can do as a biological mother, when you first brought the child into the world. Why wouldn't you at the least give it a chance to live. Giving it up for adoption, or at least leaving it alive, is giving it more of a chance, than literally killing the thing. People who don't give human life a chance to live are the ones who don't care for human life and are the selfish ones.
For whatever reason she decides to get an abortion, she's exercising her right to behave her body as she sees fit, which includes denying a zygote/embryo/fetus the use of her womb.
Legally she has the right to do that. Morally she has no right to do anything of the sort. How on earth are you going to deny entry to a child the use of your body, when you are the one who put them there in the first place?
It's like inviting someone into your home, and as soon as the walk in you shoot them with a shotgun. It makes no logical sense.
The possibility of pregnancy does not depend on consent, so consent is irrelevant. You're implying that she's entered an implicit contract with nature.
Here's an example for you:
Let's say you are driving a car down the road. You obviously don't want to get into a crash, because you are just trying to get from point A to point B. Now let's say someone crashes into you and injures you and damages your car. Obviously, you didn't consent to this, and you didn't expect for this to happen, but you know that it could happen while you were driving your car.
When you get in your car, you don't want to get into a crash, but there is a possibility that you might, and everyone on the road knows that of course. So, when you get into your car, you are consenting the possibility that you might get into a crash. You might not want to get into a crash, but the world says otherwise, and you know that it could happen.
So, if you don't want to crash, and assure that you never get into a crash, then don't drive. Otherwise, be prepared.
This analyogy for sex works the same. You might not want to get pregnant whilst having sex, but you do know that it is a possibility so you are consenting to the possibility that you might get pregnant.