Is it homophobic if I find gay male intimacy (not just porn) offputting, like it makes me gag a bit?

I do not mind it if a guy is feminine but I think I get how gay guys feel about lesbians going at it in front of them and maybe even straight sex, it really is offputting to me to see gay stuff.

If I see two men really going at it, it makes me involuntarily feel like if I see something yucky or ate really sour, bitter food unless I work to hide the look on my face. I wondered if this means I am a homophobe or just too hetero to enjoy it.

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Well, its hard to control feelings. I sometimes find them extremely cute.

Are you Scottish-phobic if the thought of eating haggis makes you gag, or cat-and-chalkboard-phobic if a cat dragging its claws on a chalkboard makes you cringe? Probably not.

I find anal sex with women to be repulsive as well. Why would you voluntarily want to mutilate your body to have bowel problems 80 year olds have?

It's a natural reaction

There are people that dont know what phobia really means. I think it's part of the woke culture to see phobia everywhere. It's like when you refuse to have sex with a trans, lefties would say you're a transphobic. Lol.

So, no, you are not homophobic. 

It’s a natural reaction to things found out of the norm (something not meant to be seen, smelled, felt, etc.)

Some people faint when they see blood. 

Some people puke when they see dead body.

Some people feel nauseated when they smell bad things.

So on and so forth…