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@whiteflame
well I got INFP on some tests when I was younger and INTJ on some tests too but I also think I was less sure of what I was unsure of about myself, if that makes sense.
I pick 'uncertain' and more neutral results with more confidence now and even results others will say are wrong.
For instance, I think that people on this website would assume I:
- Take criticism and events very personally
- Am very open about my opinions irl
I'm not the other extreme to those but both are the slight opposite to what I actually do, in general.
Also, I am goal-oriented but very flexible about how I achieve my goals and even flexible about tweaking my goals to meet reality, it's how I certainly grew less P and more J with time as I came to accept that being a purely flexible 'whatever' kind of guy only works to a certain level.
I also think that 'NxP' personality combos tend to assume that a personality as mine has to be associated with 'TJ' because I'm just so harsh and blunt but this is a wrong understanding of what they are and an even more wrong understanding of my bluntness. I am actually blunt to people to be kind to them because I know what false hope in a fake friendship/relationship is like and wouldn't wish to do that to anybody.
I also don't think people realise that I don't fake my answers to get the result that I want, I am honest about my emotions mattering to me and that I don't always plan everything out but to think I walk around without a backup plan in my head is to really not understand the walking, talking contradiction I am. My username isn't some made up lie about me, there's a lot of truth to it and until you've cracked it you'd never understand just how deep I think and plan when I have to and/or want to.