My position is very reasonable. It is that without having the charity to come to understand us, you will never do so by leaning on your own understanding.
I understand your position very well. I also do not hold it against you, because I know how much is being invested into making what we believe unintelligible. The worldview of your culture was very specifically constructed to negate Christianity. Not through anything but deceit. It is not your fault.
But charity may come in when the realization hits that your understanding of my faith in no way resembles the faith that I actually hold. In fact, that is a big red flag that there is a phenominal misunderstanding. It is a misunderstanding that has very real consequences in the world. Where does it lead? Always violence against us. It is fine, it is to be expected. The savior Himself said it was to be this way.
Once again, I point to the clue that leads to charity. You are never going to demonstrate that you understand what you are opposing. Rather, you are opposing that which you don't understand. Because the truth is not in you, it is not possible for you to have anything other than a superficial understanding of the faith. No doubt even polluted by what you hear from the heretics.
The only way out is love. It is important too. The world needs it right now. Without it, iniquity will multiply as the idolatries of men lead into ever deepening depravity.