How do you know if I "experience blue" like you do? How do you know if I "experience love" like you do?
Precisely! You know such questions are not answerable given our present state of ignorance. So how can you say there is no problem of qualia? With most problems the dificulty is finding the answer but with matters of consciousness the difficuty is finding the right questions!
Look at it from another angle.
Racism. Is it possible for a "good-hearted-person" to pretend to be a racist (like perhaps a professional actor or a performance artist)?
Now, imagine this "good-hearted-person" mostly portrayed racist characters. And in order to get free publicity, they even made racist comments in interviews and in their non-professional life.
Now try to imagine that this "good-hearted-person" starts making racist comments all the time. They don't really believe these comments, they strongly believe these views are contrary to reality and destructive to the function of a peaceful society, but they continue to act this way regardless.
Do you think it would be fair to call this person a racist?
It seems to me that "racist" is a Qualitative label.
It also seems obvious to me that "consciousness" is a Qualitative label.
If something "seems" conscious, or is functionally identical to something that is deemed to be or generally accepted as "conscious", then it IS de facto conscious.