In general, what i see is a failure to understand scripture and to consider there are things people assume aren't logical, however are. The Lord pre ordains, the Lord decides who goes were, The lord Makes good and creates evil.
There is the possibility of changing your fate however, not in the sense of God, but in the sense of physical. Those who are fore ordained for destruction are those who have a evil heart of unbelief, while those who might be saved are the ones who will believe.
So if you refused to believe the scripture, you only validate God and his fatalism, if you believe in God, to you is the Gift of salvation. As to why God has fore ordained people to destruction? romans 9 talks about that. I speak of the mystery of the gospel, how God fore knew and predestined those to salvation.
Whether you believe God or simply want to find fault with him, or you accuse me of being illogical is no longer my problem, believe, repent and be baptised and recieve the holy spirit or be damned. Choice is yours, whether you see it as such or not.