From the link RationalMadman provided:
That's probably because you've seen me doing most of the enforcement. I think if you were privy to our private conversations, your mind might change. Virt has advocated several perma-bans (no one has yet been perma-banned) and several temp-bans which I overruled. But I think our tendencies are complimentary, because we have different approaches to modding, but aren't so far apart that we can't find agreement on the key issues. It's good to have those counter-voices to give insight into a variety of perspectives when making a mod decision.
If bsh1 thought they complimented each other very well why not give Virtuoso the same privileges or have a combined vote (Virtuoso and bsh1 have to both agree to do something instead of only bsh1)?
Bsh1 MORALLY REFUSES to do.
What do you mean?
This has gone as far as the go-to punishment of Bsh1 is to have a two-way restraining order, not remotely harsher on the bully than their serial victim and say 'don't you dare say a word to the other' to the victim.
Can you rephrase this?
This attitude is PRECISELY what made Raltar leave, I am telling you.
Was Raltar on DDO I don't know who Raltar is?