It is just a way of understanding it using a biblical reference and thought system.
I'm pretty sure the holy scriptures don't say anything about which family situation is more likely to makes kids gay.
It gives reasons for why what is wrong before God happens - men who suppress the truth in unrighteousness...they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened...they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man...24 Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity,...they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator...
26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural,27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error...
they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips,30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31 without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful; 32 and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them.
If (I say this for your consideration, not mine) God has laid out what kind of relationship with Him He wants us to have, and if we choose to ignore the best God has for us, then there will be consequences for those actions.
Romans makes it plain three times that when we don't want to maintain that relationship with God He gives us over to do what we should not do. We choose to go against His word. We choose to do what is unnatural. We choose to do what is not in our best interested or what we were made for.
Based on many factors, prophecy being one, making sense of morality, origins, existence, truth, knowledge, being others.
We have one member of our family who is gay. I have watched his father undervalue him and not give him the attention and love he desired. I have watched him become more and more feminine.
If every kid who was sent to boarding school turned gay, then we'd certainly notice.
Your personal experience is not scientific. It's called "anecdotal evidence".
CORRELATION DOES NOT EQUAL CAUSATION.
True, but what I read in His word is reasonable. The family is important to God and the right relationships are important. That is why the Ten Commandments give the command to honour your father and mother. The family relationship is important. I have an explanation just like you do. I see abusive relationships destroying a sacred bond. I see sin causing problems. Does that mean I would treat a gay person without compassion and respect and of equal value to any other person? No. Is it wrong for me to point out what God has said as wrong? No. I understand that God as true means they are not in right relationship, either father or son, the father not for supplying a healthy relationship and the son for seeking something that is not condoned by God.
Stalin brushed his teeth every morning. Therefore brushing your teeth makes you a vicious commie dictator.
I have heard cases of women who have been abused and been turned off of relationships with men. Abusive and hurtful actions can turn a person away from others. I understand this.
Humans, whether abused as children or adults will tend to be anti-social. I'm pretty sure this is not in dispute. We're all firmly "anti-abuse" I hope.
You take your views from a secular society, not a godly worldview, so take it however you want. I can't change your mind.
Data will do it. Got data? I'd like some more data please.
All data is interpreted and interpretive. It does not come stamped, "This is wrong" or "this is right."
You work from your highest authority - possibly science. I work from what I believe is the highest court of appeal of which no higher can be found. If there was a more ultimate authority God would no longer be the highest authority of appeal.
Why would I look for a flawed authority if He is true and has given reasons for His being that is wired into every one of us, yet we suppress that truth?
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth [a]in unrighteousness, 19 because that which is known about God is evident [b]within them; for God made it evident to them. 20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse.
The premise is simply that if He is true then what you believe is not if what you believe is contrary to Him.