Also, context matters. When we're talking about gays/ trans people we're talking about people making choices for themselves.
No we aren't, unless you suggest they choose to be gay/trans, in which case you're backpedalling on the very basis of what you're saying in the first place.
I have no idea what you're talking about. This sounds like we're having two entirely different conversations.
This began with the OP:
Is [de-conversion therapy] wrong to insist on the l.g.b.t.?
Again, if you're insisting then it is by definition not something they want for themselves, so you are in fact pushing them into something you want for them instead.
I consider it basic common sense that we should all have the right to decide what's best for ourselves. If you disagree on that then please make your position clear.
But back to the point, everything about how this conversation began and everything I've said since makes clear that we're talking about people making their own choices. Simply saying "no we aren't" is not a response. Tell me what part of my posts departed from this.
Nope, I didn't say a pedo or animal luster acting on it (nor did I rule that out), I said the very lust in itself.
You did not say that. Here is your response in post 8:
Pedos and animal fuckers especially come under this in a way you're alluding to being wrong.
You never mentioned nor implied that you were merely talking about lust. In fact, "animal fucker" by definition implies action. And when people talk about pedophiles, they are rarely talking about people who don't have sex with children, so you weren't being clear here at all.
Moreover, since the topic here is about insisting that others de-convert (who by logical extension do not want to) then it makes no sense to invoke a person who merely has a desire to have sex with children but won't (likely for moral reasons). Anyone who fits that category would be expected to welcome de-conversion therapy so there is no reason I would assume that's what you were talking about.
The mind that's attracted to that is no different in helplessness to the mind attracted to one's own gender or that believes it's in a wrong body.
Nonsense. It is morally wrong to have sex with children, it is also highly illegal. Anyone who has this desire has every reason to want something different for themselves.
There is nothing immoral or illegal about having sex with a person of the opposite gender or transitioning, So there is absolutely nothing for this person to feel helpless about.
Your logic is to never impose on people a conversion they don't themselves innately want
No, it's not. Nothing about my posts imply that I'm speaking in absolutes, that's not how rational conversations are generally had.
if gays or trans people want it then what?
Then that is what they want for themselves.