Well, mostly everyone is for the most part at least a little bit racist.
The kind of racism you're referring to has a lot in common with the flying spaghetti monster and is an instance of a general fallacy of appealing to bias, also known as circumstantial ad hominem.
Note also that bias is limited subjectivism, total subjectivism being the claim that reality itself has no concrete existence and thus perception is entirely biased. Subjectivism is the favored sand of those without an argument to support their opinions.
Long story short the possibility of bias has never defeated an argument and never will. If the nebulous concept of bias has no place in truth-finding then it has no use at all. So sure call me racist and think it's fine because you confess yourself, I see it no differently than a religious zealot (like BrotherD or who he pretends to be) telling me I am a pawn of the devil.
The opposite of "racist", the absense of racism, would be a colorblind approach.
Correct, and therefore the only coherent definition of "anti-racist" is someone who opposes anything but colorblindness.
I think letting race be a determinant even though not the most prevalent one is definitely better than if there is absolutely none.
Not sure what that means.
Anyway back in the day the white supremacists would and did define "whiteness" by merits (and a few vices). I was just rereading some of the leatherstocking tales and was again struck by the endless racist musings of Hawkeye. That is no doubt the way people thought in 1823: no particular malice, thinking themselves fair and objective, but disgusting racists regardless.
The only possible reason to revive virtue-race association is to lay a trap. A trap to ensnare good people into racism. Any course but complete rejection of the terminology leads to civilization crushing disaster. For a non-white to accept the terminology is to give license to reject virtue and claim all judgement based on that lack of virtue is racism. For a white to accept the terminology is to choose between valuing merit and becoming a white supremacist or rejecting merit and becoming an "ally" or in other words a self-immolating, self-hating, racist, coward.
Besides the enormous emotional damage this will cause, the only people embracing virtue in this scenario are the white supremacists. They will be the only ones producing anything or accomplishing anything. How convenient then that the doctrine of communism is so often given hand in hand with these racist psy-ops.
What does communism tell you to do? Eat the rich (basically). Kill the white supremacists that were manufactured for the purpose of having a target class, take their stuff; except communism fails because now nobody has virtue and nobody is producing anything.
This is evil, and evil must be opposed. Therefore if a "person of color" decides to be punctual, I'm not going to accuse that person of internalized racism or being a race traitor and nobody can make me.