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If an unwed mother seeks assistance from the county ( or other governmental agency ) and a father cannot be found, who pays?
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Woman should get him life insurance before he disappears not look to mother country. Maybe kid has bad genetics if mom not smart enough to k own this

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And if they find the man and he is either, dead, invalid, incompetent, incarcerated,  incapable, incoherent, incorrigible, or any of the aforementioned.  And what if the mother is the same?    
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In at least one State, when an unwed mother seeks government assistance, she is required to name the father. The man can then either admit to being the father, or submit to a DNA test to prove or disprove paternity. The proven father is then responsible to the county for child support  etc. In some cases the woman rattles off a list of potential suspects. My question is "What happens if no father is proven?  Does she still get assistance? ", and "Who pays?"
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A woman that doesn't know the the Father of her child and has a long list of suspects, is pretty irresponsible.

Perhaps adoption and sterilization is the answer.

Still game though.
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who pays?
We all do, because there's a child involved and the alternative is to take the child away which, cruelty aside, is far more expensive.
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We all do, because there's a child involved and the alternative is to take the child away which, cruelty aside, is far more expensive
American's are so silly. 

It should be asked what is better for society. If baby live or die. 

You pro life people make me sick. 
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Replies that come out of left field and written very poorly truly “makes me sick.”

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English is 2nd language. How many language you know? 
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The only one I need to know…English. 
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When we invade you will need to know new language. The older you get the harder it will be for you to learn it. 
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Really?
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Байден гордится грудью.
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Bwahaahaaahaaa!!! We have the largest armed populace that far exceeds any standing military you (or any other country for that matter) have. It’s precisely why no country has invaded the US. 

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He is only proud of it because his wife is no longer pretty
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Bwahaahaaahaaa!!! We have the largest armed populace that far exceeds any standing military you (or any other country for that matter) have. It’s precisely why no country has invaded the US. 
We have not finished tempting your children to immasculate themselves yet. Patience
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We have not finished tempting your children to immasculate themselves yet. Patience
Never gonna be complete in my lifetime. So I can care less what happens after 2075. 

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Never gonna be complete in my lifetime. So I can care less what happens after 2075. 

I am glad you care so much for your seed. 
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Humanity is doomed regardless. 
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People!!!!!

I asked a question about "unwed mothers".  There are "gaps" in what is revealed to the public. Many of you have turned this into an adolescent style case of verbal diarrhea. 

Do your parents know you are online? Do you think DebateArt is just another FACEBOOK?

Kindly stay on course. If you have no information, remain silent.



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Post #2 has my opinion. 
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Woman should get him life insurance before he disappears not look to mother country. Maybe kid has bad genetics if mom not smart enough to k own this
 Life insurance would not be an effective financial tool in these instances. 
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If you make your husband disappear it doesn't pay out? Do they need bodybalso?
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If you make your husband disappear it doesn't pay out? Do they need bodybalso?


Life insurance does not pay out for "disappearance".  Also husbands are the presumed fathers , but we are talking about "unwed" mothers.
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In Russia if somebody disappears for 2 years. Cops consider them dead
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who pays?
We all do, because there's a child involved and the alternative is to take the child away which, cruelty aside, is far more expensive.
Why do "we all pay"?  If there is a child, then there is a mother and a father.  The father needs to pay. If not, there needs be legal remedies. "You do the deed, you fill the need"

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Are you against government assistance for anyone, or just unwed mothers?

You can always say someone other than me can help out, everyone who needs government assistence has parents, so maybe they should pay?  

Why unwed mothers?
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Why do "we all pay"?  If there is a child, then there is a mother and a father.  The father needs to pay. If not, there needs be legal remedies.
I responding to your own OP, you said the father cannot be found. Please explain how you hold the father accountable when you do not know where he is.

And regardless of whether you find him, if he doesn't pay then he doesn't pay, throwing him in jail doesn't change that. So if not the rest of us (through government assistance), what is your idea for how the child gets their basic survival needs met? Or do you support just letting them starve to death?