@NoOneInParticular, as this post meanders a bit, I feel.
Well, those three words are all a 'bit similar to me,
Though of course they aren't 'quite matches,
And even if I'm xenophobic a bit, doesn't mean I can't be a xenophile as well.
Not a contradiction in my mind,
So long as they take place in different aspects of life.
People 'do seem to like a middle ground, I'd agree,
Between being free to do as they like,
And being constrained along with everyone else,
For one's own and everyone else's safety.
America, I want to say,
Often get's focused on our Declaration of Independence, Constitution, Bill of Rights,
Big on the individual,
Then various inclusions to all,
The Civil War, Emancipation Proclamation,
Women's Rights, then Civil Rights Movement,
Though it's long seemed to me, we 'really went in the direction of including everyone, after WW2,
As though polar opposite-izing ourselves from the Nazi's.
But I don't know history too well.
Then there's all our business and worker's rights stuff,
'Kind of got anti-Monopoly with Theodore Roosevelt,
But there's also lot's of times the government sided with business I think.
Ahh, and all those American gangsters and outlaws,
Political figures getting assassinated a few times,
New media,
Probably hurt gun rights, I think,
Trade for safety,
Which isn't 'unreasonable, I just prefer living somewhere 'with those rights myself.
I'm probably missing 'tons of history, events, politicians and such,
Just my pop culture limited ameteur view of American history.
. . .
Not sure what the UK and such, base focus around in their history of freedom and public safety.
Magna Carta get's mentioned in American Independence films, I want to say.
Ah wait! Oliver Twist, and that whole time period of industrialization in Britain.