Why do gay guys act feminine?

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@Intelligence_06
No, the problem is that what I described is not necessarily a conscious characteristic. Because people are different, within two people, there will always be the more masculine person and the more feminine person. That is how tautologies work.
So in order to have a relationship, you have to have a masculine figure, and a feminine figure. Gotcha. That's all I need to hear. 

And when people hold a characteristic, they can amplify it over time. So yes, the feminine guy can certainly become more feminine in the future. However, homosexuality of two males is based on two males, not two masculine figures. If I have two feminine guys liking each other, why do you think they aren't labeled "lesbian"?
True. Good point. 
So would that mean, that if a masculine male, liked a feminine male, and didn't like females, would you say that the reason he is attracted to him is because of his genitals? And if that  is the case, how would you explain that to kids?
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So would that mean, that if a masculine male, liked a feminine male, and didn't like females, would you say that the reason he is attracted to him is because of his genitals? And if that  is the case, how would you explain that to kids?
We don't explain advanced quantum mechanics to kids for a reason. Neither can kids understand this. We don't need to explain it to them.

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We don't explain advanced quantum mechanics to kids for a reason. Neither can kids understand this. We don't need to explain it to them.
Exactly. We don't need to teach this to kids. It's too confusing. Yet, that is exactly what the LGBT community is trying to do. Look up the book Genderqueer, on amazon. Its rated for adults because of the graphic pornography, yet is being put on school library shelves.
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Generally,

I think it's just a matter of some people have masculine traits and some have feminine traits and these define a personality. This personality can then be tied to sexuality in any way. For example, I would say I have some feminine traits, despite being a straight cis-male. I don't think that indicts any kind of behavior or preference in a woman who dates me, but simply, that there are character traits that can be found attractive or not.

Also, Polytheist Witch,

I don't know why I found it so funny, but the idea that men have penises and women "don't have penises" instead of having vaginas is hilarious.
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Gay men want to have sex with men because they have penises not because they're feminine or masculine. Just like lesbians are attracted to each other because they don't have penises.
transphobia
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If the point of being gay, is a man liking another man, shouldn't that man be attracted to masculine traits and not feminine traits?
My thoughts exactly.
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But the right doesn’t care when Christian Walker acts like a girl, so its not something they consistently care about.
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RM, fuck you misogynist pig.