YouFound_Lxam,
1. You ask
At what point does a baby in the womb become living, and morally wrong to kill.
But, regardless of my answer, the baby/fetus is still existing in a womb that isn't there's. Should a woman be required to carry the fetus/baby? To what extent does another person have a LEGAL responsibility to help another person survive? Should someone get manslaughter for evicting a squatter from their house if they freeze outside?
2. You'll probably answer with a variation of this comment you already made
If a woman knows that if she gets pregnant, it could cause her to die, then that is her decision to get pregnant and face that risk.
Saying that a woman is responsible for her actions, however, how responsible can people be? You don't get to assume how knowledgeable someone is, especially when, in the United States, only 38 states and DC mandate sex education. On top of this, 350,000 teen pregnancies a year in the United States with 82% of them unintentional have no way to hold children accountable for knowing where babies come from.
TWS1405,
The other downfall of the pro-lifer position is it always fails to take into consideration the effect of adding another human not only to society but also the planet will have. Especially when the mother is unwed and neither mentally and/or financially prepared for losing 18 years of their own life, giving it to another for free and with little to no appreciation from various individuals close to her and from those that have nothing to do with her yet would force this upon her.
As a pro-choicer, dogshit take. Putting down the baby for the mom post-birth or the environment are both god-tier dystopian ways to evaluate life. Post-birth is fully solved through adoption, though that doesn't solve the loss of autonomy during pregnancy. For the environment/planet, unless you're willing to call for mass death, in which case I'll answer that straight up, let's say this is flawed logic.
Generally,
Why can't we just use artificial womb technology. It's right on the cusp, only requiring legal approval to test. It doesn't kill babies and doesn't force women to carry. Win, win.