Education For Bullies

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Types of Bullies

It's a combination of several different factors at work (not necessarily all of them):

  • Learning things the hard way
  • Fixation/Obsession
  • Repeating scenarios to find catharsis
  • Obliviousness

Learning Things The Hard Way
Most people have to learn things for themselves, rather than following instruction. This especially is the case for emotionally involved situations (such as love), but can apply in any situation. For a neurocognitive basis for this, some people are predominantly No-Go learners, whereas others are Go learners; this predisposition is genetic, and affects dopamine expression in the reward centers of the brain.

No-Go learners respond best to negative consequences; Go learners respond best to positive outcomes. Someone who always learns the hard way might be a No-Go Learner.

Fixation/Obsession
Nothing will make you keep hitting your head against a brick wall like being fixated/obsessed by someone/something. It'll encourage tunnel vision, and make you lose sight of the big picture and get lost in the details.

Repeating Scenarios To Find Catharsis
People have a tendency to repeat traumatic events in their lives so that they can change the outcome of that experience - or at least process it. This may cause someone to keep acting out seemingly strange behaviors, which lead to a negative conclusion - until they can break the cycle (or find a safe way to discharge the emotional payload and process it). 

This is particularly common in people who have PTSD and may be tied to specific circumstances, or anniversaries of events - even if they're not consciously aware of the connection.

Obliviousness
Maybe they're just not paying attention to what they need to be to help them? You should probably give them a nudge in the right direction.

Ahem.

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@ethang5
I agree completely with you on that bullies need to be tamed.

If you do not tame the ones who mentally and semi-physically torture people, you cannot ever truly be in shock at school-shooters or other shit that occurs as a result of it.

If you want to sit back and be libertarian about the abuse that leads to victims crying themselves to sleep every night, faking sick just to avoid school then who the fuck are you to scream about the result via chain reaction of events down the line?

Fix the system, stop being a pussy to people who make others feel like pussies. You want to be a coward and be shocked when someone forced to be a coward their entire life suddenly has the urge to feel in control and release their unimaginably huge burden of agony on innocent people or even sometimes on those who did actually do the bullying? Revenge is as natural an abusive thing to do as the bullying that leads to it. You cannot blame one and not hate the other. Learn how it all works and fix the issue at the root.
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Not a single source was posted...
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When I'm ready for you to start thinking, I'll post one.
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You look very sad in that mask. Maybe you realised how retarded you look when you rant without sources.

If only you had posted a source...
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Watch the way you speak, your mask is no happier than his.
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^  Says the guy so unhappy he had to block me lol.

If the truth isn't on your side, silence those who speak it.
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The truth is that ethang did absolutely nothing to provoke you or require you to post here. You chose to come and first point out that it's lacking sources and then get personal when you realise he's not riled up enough yet. Then you struggle to come up with something to say back to me as you know if you are too cruel in how you respond to me, I will not let you sit there abusing me as the past has proven not just with you but others, one which you helped me shut down for good in persecuting me and having any standing to abuse me.

You sit there happy to lash out at any and everyone until they are angry, sad, envious or just so disappointed with the interaction's lack of pleasure that they avoid you. You do not contribute a single useful thing to the forums other than abusive pseudo-intellectual original posts as your best contribution and toxic replies as your high-volume contribution. You are here to make people who express themselves feel negative and if they defend themselves against it, you make them feel more negative for daring to try but you should know something, I am not amazing because I am a genius, I am amazing because that's my least amazing attribute.

I will not let you run around here bullying everyone. You will learn that you have no right to abuse, at all, zilch. I do not give the slightest shit what you and your vile right-wing ideology and outlook on life say is okay to do to people as you think everyone deserves abuse to toughen up and it's 'only natural', because what I have seen of nature is hideous and not at all a good thing to strive for. It may well be natural to bully and it may well toughen people up but I don't believe 'natural' is good and I don't think it's bad either, I think it's a completely irrelevant aspect to whether something is a good or bad thing to do. You are being 'bad' you are being 'evil' and natural or not, there will be 'natural karma' if you keep at it, that's a promise so long as I don't die IRL or get too busy to come here. 

You wouldn't have said 'no sources' if you were not here for nefarious purposes and wouldn't have followed up how you did if not here to make the poster feel extremely negative. Rather, you would have given sources against him (or for his case) and explore the ideas with him, incentivising him to post sources back or at least extend upon what you bring forth.

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I would appreciate elaboration, Mr Madman.
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On which part, genderless spectre.
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All of it.
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All of what?

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You look very sad in that mask.
Lol. You look positively happy in that........what is that? Yeah, you're a stable person.

By the way, I use to know a moron who also thought that my avatar was me. His name was moron hari, do you know him?

Maybe you realised how retarded you look when you rant without sources.
If you think that's a rant, you don't know me. But I did realize you are retarded, you don't just look it.

If only you had posted a source...
For what? What needs a source? You posted no source either.
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@ethang5
You are being a bully here, on a thread what you explain the ignorance and lack of life experience they have had that leads to them lashing out how they do, you do the exact thing you preach against.

Do not let sinners force you to sin, instead operate on a different level/kind of sin to them. Do not resort to calling people morons and retards if you do not want the same treatment back, it is inherently hypocritical.
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>ethang5 makes a thread exploring ways to counter-act bullying
>resorts to bullying by calling other users retards and morons
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Do you deny being a moron?

I made a thread about educating bullies, who in fact are morons.

Do you deny being a moron?

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Bullies are cowards. They run if you stand up to them.
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The hilarity of you not realising that the video is mocking the absolute shit out of people who believe in it, is evidence in itself that bullying doesn't even work in that video.

The video is brutal satire to people with your stance on bullying, it makes it clear in several contexts how stupid your line of thinking is in justifying bullying. The acting alone makes it clear who the real sociopaths are and who should be nipped in the bud.

 
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I would like to personally thank Ethan for bringing this to our attention. In the past, many of Ethans posts contain claims in which no evidence was provided, however this time, Ethan provides ample evidence. Clearly, he is an expert on this topic as we can plainly see by just a small example of his many posts. Please enjoy Ethans presentation of hard evidence of bullying others...
 
Did I not tell you to shut up and goaway?
 
Why do crazy people always want toshout at others?
 
Now, take your stinky mattress andbe gone. You can't tell anyone anything. You're just a loony guy on the net. Goaway, we can smell you.
 
 
You are a nobody moron.
 
You cannot tell me what to do. Youobviously have mental issues. How many people have told you that?
 
No one wants to talk to you, orrespond to your irrational posts, with it's weird symbols and fragmented ideas.
 
Shut up, and go away.
 
 

No, you just an online idiot with a mental illness.

Shut up and go away.

 

I don't care how many of you other mental patients you havewith you. Shut up and go away.

You are not sane. No one wants you yelling at them. I don't care what youthink.

You are nothing more than an internet loonie, making loonie posts.

Shut up, and go away.

 

That is why the jails are full of you mental patients. Youare nobody. You are mentally handicapped.

Please shut up and go away. Your opinion trumps on one else's.

You are like the deranged bum who stumbles into a wedding party. You stink, youare loud and stupid, and no one wants you around.

Shut up. Go away

 
Hey, moron. No matter how many timesyou repost stupidity, you will get the same answer. Shut up and go away.
 
Or should I post in gibberish do youunderstand?
 
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It means shut your retarded mouthand go away.
 
 
Oho! You do speak English! Or didyour meds just kick in?
 
Obsessions? You are the moronposting the same gibberish over and over again. What is wrong with you?Psychosis?
 
You are so stupid, you're addressingother posts not even in this thread. How retarded are you? The bottom line is,
 
Shut up and go away.
 
Everyone thinks you are a nut.Hardly anyone answers your scatterbrain posts. All you do is clog up the boardand kill threads, like you killed the Star Trek thread. My goodness, you wentfull loony on that one, posting complete gibberish in repeated posts to no one.
 
I have nothing to do with you. Youropinions are that of a crazy loon.
 
Shut up. Go away.
 


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Hey Goldy!

Fresh from your ban and here you are again, chasing me around the board, and probably begging bsh1 to ban me. Of course, you.... forgot to post the comments of his looniness, mustardness.

My god you're a tortured person! How it must suck to be you.

Well, I'll wait for bsh1 to investigate your snitchi....ahem....your complaints. In the main time, how was your vacay? Seems you came back as bitter and caustic as ever.

Be careful now. If you can't post here anymore that bitterness might just consume you.
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Thanks again for making this thread, it gave us all a wonderful insight into your behavior, which of course, you're now enjoying on your own with a much deserved vacation.
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For evidence see thangs behaviour. The runaway king. Ooh and now he's banned, how very amusing.
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Good to have you back mate.
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Thanks mate, notice how Ethan's response to me once again describes himself? Tortured person, bitter and caustic... he does like to talk about himself a lot.
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I'll wait for bsh1 to investigate your snitchi....ahem....your complaints.
Sorry Ethan, but I never sent any of this to Bsh, it's only here in your thread where it belongs, that others may read the OP and then see for themselves the hard evidence you provided in your posts showing who the real bully is here.

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Why did you came back??? 

The site was doing fine without you.. Go back where you came from. That's back to your mother wound!!! :)

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A new account on the same day Ethan was banned, what are the odds?
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The odds says it time up for you...
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Is ice cream on the menu for your 13th birthday party?