only SOME members of the royal family are required to "show up" for SOME ceremonies
and there is a lot of activity that does NOT get reported in the press
They do get some moments of privacy and those considered not
to be senior royals get more privacy unless they do something considered inappropriate
and therefore newsworthy. The royals are also subjected to what are professional
gossip mongers, the papers frequently feature articles about the royals and those
article’s credibility relies on something like “a royal expert has said” “a
palace insider has claimed” “a royal source has alleged,” all basically appeals to
some anonymous authority. There are also royal biographers who have never
spoken to a member of the royal family but rely on similar gossip. Although the
royal family has the legal right to sue for libel, it is unlikely that they
would do so because of royal protocol, and the media knows this. Stories about
the royals sell papers and the gullible lap up all they read.
Personally, I am neither pro nor anti royal. Although I do
find all the pageantry and ritual fascinating in a surreal sort of way.