We also should control a woman when telling her she is not allowed to have an abortion because it infringes on the rights of the child.
There is no child involved, stop lying and address the topic. You are demanding that you have access to every woman's body as your right. Sorry but as you say a rapist doesn't have that right and neither do you.
It can be used as a figure of speech for the unborn, just like a baby can. In fact, it is used in the Bible. I'll take God's word over yours any day.
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An unborn child has not yet been born and is still inside its mother's womb.
...her unborn baby.
The unborn are children who are not born yet.
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“In that fraction of a second when the chromosomes form pairs, the sex of the new child will be determined, hereditary characteristics received from each parent will be set, and a new life will have begun.”
Kaluger, G., and Kaluger, M., Human Development: The Span of Life, page 28-29, The C.V. Mosby Co., St. Louis, 1974.
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“Your baby starts out as a fertilized egg… For the first six weeks, the baby is called an embryo.”
Prenatal Care, US Department Of Health And Human Services, Maternal and Child Health Division, 1990
Many if not most loving mothers refer to the unborn as a baby (my baby kicked) or child.
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There is no living human being in the woman's body either, so get the fuck out of her body.
According to science textbooks on the subject you are wrong. A new human being starts at conception. It is not merely a bunch of cells that a woman can do what she likes with. It is a human being.
Scarr, S., Weinberg, R.A., and Levine A., Understanding Development, Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, Inc., 1986. page 86
“The development of a new human being begins when a male’s sperm pierces the cell membrane of a female’s
ovum,
or egg….The villi become the placenta, which will nourish the developing infant for the next eight and a half months.”
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Human Embryology, 3rd ed. Bradley M. Patten, (New York: McGraw Hill, 1968), 43.
“It is the penetration of the ovum by a spermatozoan and resultant mingling of the nuclear material each brings to the union that constitutes the culmination of the process of fertilization and marks the initiation of the life of a new individual.”
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The reasons are identical:
Having and exercising power over another persons bodily autonomy.
You do not have the right to exercise your bodily autonomy over another human being when it means killing that human being, except in self-defense or times of war. That is what the woman is doing. It is a selfish act and one that should be banned, except when the woman's life is threatened.