If you're confident in your own belief, why would you bother?
Why would talking at someone else (while ignoring them) help YOU convince YOURSELF?
Fine points, that I agree with you on.
What's the point of "defending" an argument if that argument has no ability to CONVINCE others?
Though I still think my points are valid in response to this question.
Perhaps I simply lack the ability, but one meets many obstinate people on the internet, that one does not expect to convince.
Sorry a bit rambling here below.
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It's like playing a video game, people want a challenge, but they 'still want to win, to beat the opponent.
Hope for an opponent who'll fight them, but not be so skilled as to crush them.
Want to be able to showcase their own RTS or FPS skills.
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Sometimes a person is simply confused how others could possess certain beliefs that they find 'wrong, yet people still possess these beliefs.
Sometimes a person just wants to see 'why, though they don't want to be convinced of those beliefs.
Rather they want to crush those beliefs, not be affected by any of the opponents arguments, and just say wrong, wrong, wrong. I don't understand how you can be so mistaken. Even after all my objective arguments you still won't admit defeat?
Clearly you're just an idiot, and your beliefs were of no real threat or consequence to me, I can continue on happy that my beliefs are right, even though other people hold different beliefs, they are based upon faulty logic.
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It's just using some person that you expect to beat, to 'further convince yourself of your beliefs. 'Even if you're confident, people often like having 'reason to be confident.
You might say an opponent Steelman is better than an opponent Strawman,
But sometimes people like playing video games on easy mode,
Or only doing light lifting at the gym.
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I 'do agree with not ignoring the opponents points, but sometimes that's a tactic people try, since they like winning the debate.
Myself I'm prone to admitting fault or weakness in the comments of a debate, than 'in the debate.
Unless I'm debating someone as a friendly conversation or think it'll aid me to admit fault then counterattack. Then it's easy enough to admit fault.
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Confidence, can be gained by experience, effort exerted and proven.