I think it is stronger for defenseless, innocent" children.
You made a case that adults are criminals. Now you're saying children are bigger criminals?
If "innocent" is synonymous with "criminal" to you, yes.
A woman seeking an abortion clearly doesn't feel the strength of this connection the way that you do.
The connection exists, and it is not just how she feels. She brought that baby into existence by her behavior. Calling the baby a "trespasser" or a "stranger" is ... I have to say it, ....heartlessly stupid.
Try and tell the government that you feel no "connection" to your child and see if they will waive child support.
And the analogy has to do with forcing other people to save lives at great personal expense to themselves.
Your analogy fails because you pretend context doesn't matter. Prison forces people to save lives at great personal expense to themselves, so does the military. In each case, a crime and a legal commitment respectively, obligates the person. Only the dishonest want us to free criminals from the prison that limits their freedom without considering their crime.
Your argument pretends that the woman (and the man) have no responsibility in the baby being there. That is both untrue and absurd.
Depending on what you do, society will expect you to save lives at great personal expense to yourself. The couple knew this before they hooked up.
There are 2 things wrong with this. First, it assumes wrongly, that killing is OK if the victim feels no pain. The possible pain of the victim has no baring on whether murder is wrong or right. It's a red herring.
Second, "feeling pain" is just an adhock standard you dreamed up. Another person could put it at, "when the baby develops fingers", or "before a baby can hear". But all of them are subjective, ad hoc standards set up for when you can kill a person. The baby is in no way culpable for the decisions of the parents, especially those decisions made before it was conceived that lead to its creation.
You have the choice to help people or to not. It's fantastic of you if you do, but I personally would not want the government to force it upon you in any significant way.
This is disingenuous. The government forces it upon me when they mandate restitution for a prior crime, or child support for a child conceived. In each of those kinds of cases, it would be folly not to consider the defendants prior behavior.
Why should it be different for women and their babies? A persons right to self autonomy doesn't trump everything, and persons themselves can do things that require them to limit the right for a time. None of this is new or illogical.
(granted I would too for late term pregnancies, as I do believe in protecting beings whom feel pain)
What about a person who does not believe protection should be based on pain perception? Is such a person also moral when he advocates for late term abortions?
..nor do I have a clue how you're comparing women making the personal choice to not get pregnant to that.
I'm not. You've said nothing about NOT getting pregnant. We are talking abortion, and every point you've brought up so far has been rebutted.
*Equating an unwanted baby with an "intruder". Rebutted
*Claiming "no connection" to the fetus. Rebutted
*Woman's right to privacy and self-autonomy. Rebutted
*killing OK before the child can feel pain, Rebutted
*Woman being stripped of her rights. Rebutted
Do you have any other arguments? Any I have not addressed?
Since you're spiraling into even more toxicity, that's all I have to say to you
Your choice. But I have a suspicion your leaving is really because your argument is spiraling down the drain.