People like you are one of the biggest reasons Trump was elected (Disclaimer: I don't support Trump). You disagree about abortion? You think women are second-class citizens who don't deserve the same rights as men! You want immigration to be legal? You're a racist! You don't think men can become women? You're a bigot! (I'm speaking in generalizations. I'm not saying that you believe any of these things, except the one about about abortion because you said that yourself, though in different words.)
The point is that many people are sick and tired of self-righteous liberals who condemn everyone who disagrees as a bad person, rather than just a person with bad ideas. Pro-life people don't oppose women's bodily autonomy; they believe that the unborn is a different body entirely. Now, you can say, "That's nonsense! Fetuses are part of the woman's body!" or "It's in the woman's body, so it's her choice." Consequently, people who oppose abortion oppose bodily autonomy. However, that would only be true if they agreed with you on those things. Let me use an analogy to show what I mean.
Suppose there was this guy who said the earth was flat, and someone accused him of lying. The flat-earther replied, "I'm not lying. I really believe the earth is flat." Even though he would be wrong, that would not make him a liar; he's just ignorant and misguided. If we pro-lifers are wrong, the same is true of us. We don't oppose bodily autonomy; we just mistakenly think that the unborn is a different body (assuming we're wrong for the sake of argument).
Of course, you can refuse to accept this and desperately cling to your belief that those who disagree with you must somehow be sexist and hateful and oppose bodily autonomy. If so I have a simple question for you: according to gallup, 51% of women consider themselves to be pro-life.
Do they oppose their own bodily autonomy and consider themselves to be second-class citizens? If not, then how can you logically maintain that men who oppose abortion do think those things? If you do think that pro-life women don't think they're second-class citizens but pro-life men do, then why does the difference in their chromosomes and genitals change the logic of the situation?