Corporal punishment of children should be banned

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Every slap, every strike, every moment spent in tears and pain, memories of violence and feelings of fear, every humiliating display of force is a violation of a child.

When parents physically punish, they communicate that child's bodies and emotions are inherently unworthy of respect or protection. It reduces communication, conditions them to internalize their anger, pain, and fear, leading to self-blame and low self-esteem. Studies show that even yelling at children causes them harm to their mental health. Physical punishment carries significant harm to mental health, as instead of being talked to and understood, children are hurt and they feel scared and traumatized. The stress caused by corporal punishment can negatively impact a child's brain development. It causes long-term emotional distress, increases anxiety and fear in children, leads to lower self-esteem, can result in depression, causes trust issues with parents/caregivers, creates a negative association with authority figures, can lead to feelings of helplessness, encourages repressed anger, which may manifest later.

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Every slap, every strike, every moment spent in tears and pain, memories of violence and feelings of fear, every humiliating display of force is a violation of a child.

When parents physically punish, they communicate that child's bodies and emotions are inherently unworthy of respect or protection. It reduces communication, conditions them to internalize their anger, pain, and fear, leading to self-blame and low self-esteem. Studies show that even yelling at children causes them harm to their mental health. Physical punishment carries significant harm to mental health, as instead of being talked to and understood, children are hurt and they feel scared and traumatized. The stress caused by corporal punishment can negatively impact a child's brain development. It causes long-term emotional distress, increases anxiety and fear in children, leads to lower self-esteem, can result in depression, causes trust issues with parents/caregivers, creates a negative association with authority figures, can lead to feelings of helplessness, encourages repressed anger, which may manifest later.
Simple solution practiced over the ages. “Spare the rod and spoil the child.”
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People only care about science when it agrees with them.
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Every slap, every strike, every moment spent in tears and pain, memories of violence and feelings of fear
Good; children should be afraid.  Relaxed people don't work as hard as people that are afraid.  Bring back Tiger parents.  American culture needs to copy what they do Japan wrt children's education.

Fearful children use that fear to become smart.  Do you train harder when you have a race to attempt to win (fear of defeat) or when you don't (no fear)?
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It causes emotional detachment, contributes to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), reduces concentration in school, causes school avoidance due to fear, lowers academic motivation, leads to lower academic performance,increases dropout rates, creates an aversion to learning, reduces classroom participation.
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I doubt that.

Gen X was whipped as a kid; Gen Alpha was not.  Who was better behaved as a kid?  The kids influenced by Marty McFly or the kids influenced James Charles?

You expose a kid to peanuts early, they are more likely to become resistent to peanuts.  You expose a kid to pain early, they are more likely to become resistent to pain.  

Bring back the Marty McFly Generation!
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It hinders problem-solving skills, encourages learning through fear instead of curiosity.
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Good; children should be afraid.  Relaxed people don't work as hard as people that are afraid.  Bring back Tiger parents.  American culture needs to copy what they do Japan wrt children's education.

Fearful children use that fear to become smart.  Do you train harder when you have a race to attempt to win (fear of defeat) or when you don't (no fear)?
Tiger parenting works for Asians. Asian children learn to respect their elders.
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It hinders problem-solving skills, encourages learning through fear instead of curiosity.
Why not use both fear and curiosity?  I would never whip a kid for being curious.  If a kid asks me, "What's your social security number?", then I would tell him to stop asking stupid questions.  If he asks, "How do you solve this part of algebra 2?", then I present a procedure.
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And we all see how smart Asians are.  Copy them.
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It may result in learning disabilities due to chronic stress. Many countries ban corporal punishment of prisoners because it is believed to violate their rights, and it is irrational to think that children who are guilty of no crime have less rights than prisoners.
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Many countries ban corporal punishment of prisoners because it is believed to violate their rights
I would bring back corporal punishment for criminals.  Beats a 90 day sentence funded with taxpayers.  my money is more valuable to me than their comfort; welcome to capitalism (the consensus).
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There are much better alternatives to corporal punishment of children. Positive reinforcement is more effective.
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Carrot and stick; make both intense.
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Time-outs encourage reflection. Communication improves behavior in the long run. Restorative discipline fosters empathy. Problem-solving strategies encourage independence. Behavioral modeling creates long-term change. These are all better than a stick.
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You want to know something?  In the UK, the penalty for theft is jail time; 1.5 million robberies happen there annually.

Saudi Arabia is much more poor; their penalty for stealing is they chop off your hand; Saudi Arabia has half the population of the UK; they have 2 robberies annually (not 2 million, just 2).

Sometimes Shirah law is pretty useful.  It shouldn't be unconditionally applied (no death penalty for homosexuality), but I'd rather have 2 people get their hands cut off and 1.5 million people not punished for a crime they didn't do than 1.5 million people imprisoned.

Diversity is a strength; thank you Saudi Arabia.  Brown Muslims can have good ideas sometimes.
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Reward-based systems promote motivation, parental guidance and patience lead to better discipline. Studies in overwhelming majority speak against corporal punishment. Studies show corporal punishment is ineffective long-term. Research links it to higher aggression rates. Neurological studies show stress from physical punishment harms brain development. Pediatric organizations condemn corporal punishment. Psychological associations strongly oppose it. Educators advocate against its use.
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Studies in overwhelming majority speak against corporal punishment.
Who funded those studies:

Note; I don't hate the image; I don't support the mass murder of similar people who are in this image; but I know they fund a lot of studies and their culture is very soft and against corporal punishment, so I think their bias leaks out in the studies they fund.
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Child development experts recommend positive discipline instead. Countries that banned corporal punishment of children report positive outcomes. Studies show non-violent parenting leads to better-adjusted adults. Evidence overwhelmingly supports alternative discipline over physical punishment.
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Child development experts recommend positive discipline instead. Countries that banned corporal punishment of children report positive outcomes. Studies show non-violent parenting leads to better-adjusted adults. Evidence overwhelmingly supports alternative discipline over physical punishment.
Why didn’t that work for you?
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Children dont want to feel scared, they dont want to be hurt or yelled at, and they dont deserve to be hurt like that. It harms their wants in the long run, and makes them less able to achieve what they want in life, such as safety, protection, respect and happiness. It violates children's rights, is considered child abuse in many countries. It goes against UN Convention on the Rights of the Child. It is banned in many developed and advanced nations.

Why didn’t that work for you?
I was beaten a lot as a child, and I turned out almost okay.
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Why didn’t that work for you?
I was beaten a lot as a child, and I turned out almost okay.
So your parents knew what they were doing?

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Why didn’t that work for you?
I was beaten a lot as a child, and I turned out almost okay.
So your parents knew what they were doing?
Almost.
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Child development experts recommend positive discipline instead.
These studies are funded by Jews.  Jewish culture is very soft and anti corporal punishment; so the study is biased.
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It violates the principle of bodily autonomy, encourages parental misuse of power. It is inconsistent with laws protecting adults from assault. Body rights are crucial rights. Respecting body ownership is even a condition for having a debate and reaching truth of a position.
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These studies are funded by Jews
Well, I guess Jews can do good things too.

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It violates the principle of bodily autonomy
Only slightly; like a vaccine against measles.

 It is inconsistent with laws protecting adults from assault. 
Children are different than adults.
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They can; but they can also be biased, so that should be considered.
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Corporal punishment infringes upon a child's fundamental right to physical integrity and dignity. It treats children as less deserving of protection from violence than adults. Society has evolved to recognize that violence against any person is unacceptable, and children deserve the same level of protection.

They can; but they can also be biased
And Saudi Arabia is a great country to live in?
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And Saudi Arabia is a great country to live in?
No, because they're poor and they are too strict on crime.  They will stone you to death for adultery if you're married.

The Jews are too soft on crime.

America I think has a much better balance.