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@Best.Korea
For you to say the brain is the most important part, you're not using yours.

If there is no body, then what is being transitioned in what is called transgender surgery?
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@Sidewalker
You say why label, well we have labels called heterosexual and homosexual don't we?

They exist because we judge what something is and not.
Now if you're scared to call a cis male gay for doing whatever sexually with a trans female, that cis male wants to know, it's disingenuous to avoid answering the question.
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I guess it's easier to be satirical than to be logical consistently. Two peas in a pod .
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@Mall
Are you gay being a cis male engaging in a sexual relationship  with a trans female

...for contacting sexually the arousal of another cis male prostate gland releasing its fluid.
Your reply to ranacat doesn't cut it, because your initial post [above]  is lacking the phrase cited below your first post by description of not just a sexual relationship, but one resulting in a release of fluid. That's called baiting in some circles. Not all "sexual" relationships result in male orgasm, my friend, even between males, because they don't, and because  in some relationships, there is no stimulation of the genitals to achieve release, etc, etc, etc. That's why the quotes around "sexual," because that's a loaded word that does not always result in '"premature efactulation."
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@Mall
Now if you're scared to call a cis male gay for doing whatever sexually with a trans female, that cis male wants to know, it's disingenuous to avoid answering the question.
Perhaps they want to respected for their privacy.
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@Mall
You say why label, well we have labels called heterosexual and homosexual don't we?
Yes, we also have labels called asshole and bigoty.
They exist because we judge what something is and not.
I don't think that all assholes are bigots, but I do think that all bigots are assholes.
Now if you're scared to call a cis male gay for doing whatever sexually with a trans female, that cis male wants to know,
Nonsense, that cis male doesn.t give a crap what I or an asshole bigot thinks of him.
it's disingenuous to avoid answering the question.
That's right, and the question I asked was "are you gay being a cis male that seems obsessively interested in Transexuals, what exactly are you "coming out as"?", and it is very understandable why you are afraid to answer the question. 

You clearly have feelings that draw you to transexuals, and that scares you, you want to know what cis males think of other cis males who are drawn to transexuals, you are clearly afraid of the feeling you have.  I'm sorry, but I'm not going to tell you what to do, you need to decide for yourself if you are coming out as gay.

When you finally do, I'm sure you will find it liberating.



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@Mall
Wherein lies the illogic in my previous statement?

All barring those with significant developmental anomalies, everyone else is unalterably born one of two gamete producers.

OK, so we can chop things about and become a synthetic hormone drug dependant...Such is the evolution of the mind and sexual fantasy.

And perhaps over time the species will alter biologically...As mind clearly affects psychological systems, so it might also affect biological systems.

Though currently, I would suggest that there is still a distinction to be made between sexual fantasy and sexual reality.


So Mall, what is your logical take on the subject.
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@fauxlaw
I just called it for what it is . Saying cis male and trans female are surface terms. I just cut it down to the bare bones which people often avoid to avoid the truth.

That's why some individuals throw the worn out "don't judge" card around and the "why label" and all this derailing.

I just initially asked a question. People take a question as criticism and remonstration. Just an inquiry, just a question.
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The cis male wants the answer to the question.  Now if you can't answer, say you can't. Don't derail or filibuster. Disingenuous, like I said.
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@Sidewalker
No, answer the question first at the top of this thread. Don't get in your feelings, don't take things so personally. You in particular, stop getting upset so easily.

If you won't answer the question, say so or don't respond to these threads.
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I don't believe I have an opinion on it. I think that is what you mean by " take".


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@Mall
The cis male wants the answer to the question.  Now if you can't answer, say you can't. Don't derail or filibuster. Disingenuous, like I said.
To your question below. The answer is yes the cis male is gay.

Are you gay being a cis male engaging in a sexual relationship  with a trans female?