Want to stop the civil war? Stop doing things that half the country are perceiving as enslavement and attack. Can we do that? No, no we can't because that's how morals work.
The left-tribe won't stop trying to save the youth of the midwest from heteronormativity and the right tribe won't stop trying to save the city centers from abortion.
It should go without saying that when you steal 30% of people's stuff they're going to get very angry if you spend it in ways they don't like, so if the federal government could stop doing that it would also do a great deal to re-harmonize the nation.
Look familiar? That's right it's the federal compromise which is the moderate position in the right-tribe. People like IWRA have backed themselves into an ideological corner in which not controlling other people in distant lands is tantamount to surrender. To even suggest removing the cause of the conflict is itself something only the enemy would say (which means you are the aggressor).
To quote the song from Vikings season 1: This will never end because I want more, more, give me more, give me more.