Do you think of yourself a "good " person?

Do you think it's good to get a vasectomy?

Oh Good for you, you think you are good person. Some will disagree.  The only struggle is your acceptance of reality and the way people really are and how they may or may not view you.

How do I have a struggle with the reality of people thinking of what they think and their views?

I just made a point about not to worry about others thoughts . So being that I know of not to worry of these people of course I know they exist.

It seems to me that you can't solidly identify yourself in reference to that simple question because of others. You can't have your own judgment of yourself because of others.

I don't know where you picked up that mindset from but the news flash reality you must take in is knowing yourself, know how to rate your own self. See your strengths , weaknesses, talents, flaws. Got nothing to do with trying to get somebody else's two cents. 

This way when faced with a question "are you a good person?"

You can answer confidently, firmly with a yes or no without the convoluted "well he thinks " or "she would think" or "it depends on the world".

You know yourself. 

It doesn't matter if you worry about it. People will think what they think. You don't decide you are a good person, other people do. "You may think you are qualified for the jobs, the employers wont"  You struggle with the fact that you don't get to decide you are a good person when dealing with society.

I struggle not while you do because according to you other people decide for you. You don't know your own self to identify what you are.

I decide I'm good at a profession and an employer agrees which is why they hired me.

Also it doesn't matter when I don't worry about what others decide UNLESS harm is involved.