I mean it is important for a pedophile to do this so they don't act on urges
Pedophiles are just supposed to live alone and not make any or much contact with people in real life.
And they should never have any friends either.
I dont see why would anyone wanna be friends with someone who wishes their extermination, and most people wish for extermination of pedophiles.
Do not think that pedophiles and non-pedophiles even belong to same species.
They dont.
The two species are different to the point where one wants to exterminate the other or severely abuse it.
Also, reproduction of pedophiles has nothing in common with reproduction of non-pedophiles.
Non-pedophiles reproduce so that new generations work to support old generations. Its a reproduction based on material greed which is self-contradicting because those who dont reproduce end up having more wealth as they save money that would otherwise be wasted on children.
So a non-pedophile society is in fact a society that has to be forced to reproduce, because otherwise they wont.
Pedophiles have a completely different motive for reproduction, as they are literally attracted to what they reproduce, so they are attracted to reproduction and dont need to be forced to reproduce.
Further, pedophiles can reproduce through indirect reproduction, where they convert children they abuse into future pedophiles, where non-pedophiles do the opposite: they try to stop everyone from becoming pedophile but without creating all conditions for further reproduction of non-pedophiles.
As we can see, they are two completely different species operating under completely different set of reasons, and both are trying to outproduce each other.
The idea of one species being friends with another is a complete nonsense, because anyone who wishes to exterminate you is likely not your friend.