In any nation where men and women are equal on paper, women are more privileged by default

: a right or immunity granted as a peculiar benefit, advantage, or favor : PREROGATIVE

especially : such a right or immunity attached specifically to a position or an office

If something happens by default, it happens only because something else which might have prevented it or changed it has not happened.

an adult female person

1. shorter once past or deep into the male puberty age
   
2. weaker physically top-heavy severity. The weakest men is extremely weak, probably no difference to weakest woman but at the athletics, bodybuilding, dancer and any such level you will see the women can't remotely equal to the men.
   
3. Better at helping others emotionally, worse at enduring emotional stress themselves.
   

• Women tend to score higher than men in areas of empathy, interpersonal relationships and social responsibility.
  Men tend to score higher than women in areas of assertiveness, stress tolerance and self-regard (or confidence).
  

• Remember this: Almost all the ways that women are superior ultimately benefit others, including men
  

• Here's where women differ from men. If the other person is upset, or the emotions are disturbing, women's brains tend to stay with those feelings.
  But men's brains do something else: They sense the feelings for a moment, then tune out of the emotions and switch to other brain areas that try to solve the problem that's creating the disturbance.
  
  Thus women's complaint that men are tuned out emotionally, and men's that women are too emotional — it's a brain difference.
  Neither is better — both have advantages. The male tune-out works well when there's a need to insulate yourself against distress so you can stay calm while others around you are falling apart and focus on finding a solution to an urgent problem. And the female tendency to stay tuned in helps enormously to nurture and support others in emotionally trying circumstances. It's part of the "tend-and-befriend" response to stress.
  

In the survey, the researchers asked emerging-aged adults to rate how much they expected to enjoy 40 specific child care tasks and 58 specific household tasks. They asked middle-aged adults to rate their current attitude toward each of those same tasks. Participants in both groups also reported how they would ideally split the responsibility for each task with their partner.
“In the aggregate, women reported enjoying child care tasks more than men did,” Bleske-Rechek says of their findings. “In fact, although both sexes provided favorable ratings to most child care tasks, there was not a single child care task that men liked or foresaw liking more than women did.”
Women in both age groups said they preferred having more responsibility for scheduling and coordinating children’s events and appointments, and for shopping for children’s needs and wants. Men in both groups preferred that their partner have more responsibility in those areas, the study found.
The men in the study reported that they enjoy household tasks that involve physical work with objects, including outdoor labor and home fixes and maintenance, far more than women did. In fact, women tended to dislike tasks involving outdoor labor and home fixes and maintenance, Bleske-Rechek says.
“While women wanted their partners to have responsibility for those tasks, men themselves also preferred to have more responsibility for those tasks,” Bleske-Rechek says.
In addition to child care, women said they also preferred tasks associated with food preparation, family scheduling and organizing, and home aesthetics much more than men did. Even though men did not necessarily dislike those tasks, men tended to prefer that their partner have more responsibility for them, she says.

Feminists believe that society is misogynist

because women are more likely to face sexual harassment, and my response is

The fact is that what constitutes sexual harassment/assault is mostly contingent upon what the woman feels about it, so a Chad and an ugly dude can do the exact same thing to the exact same woman and one will go to jail while the other will get laid later that night.

Understanding the data on sexual harassment charges
The public discourse often discusses sexual harassment as a problem that primarily confronts women. The available data show that sexual harassment does have a disproportional impact on women. Multiple surveys indicate that a majority of women report experiencing sexual harassment at some point their lives, often starting at a young age. The ramifications of sexual harassment for women are enormous. Researchers have found that women who experience workplace sexual harassment may be more likely to experience financial stress, have lower job satisfaction, and have higher turnover intentions and actual quit rates than women who don’t experience sexual harassment.

But sexual harassment is not solely a women’s problem. Data reported by the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), the main federal agency responsible for receiving and investigating workplace sexual harassment charges, show that in fiscal year 2017 just less than one-fifth—16.5 percent—of the sexual harassment charges received by the agency were filed by men, with the remaining 83.5 percent of the charges filed by women. While these numbers make clear that women, who comprise approximately 47 percent of the workforce, are disproportionately more likely file sexual harassment charges relative to their share of the workforce, they also demonstrate that a noteworthy portion of these charges are filed by men as well.

Incels are the laughing stock of society

but women who are raped are taken very seriously and treated like what happened to them is the worst thing ever.

I would argue that being lonely and made to feel inferior for your entire life is worse than being raped once or twice in your life time, especially since lonely men are killing themselves in droves meanwhile a woman is far less likely to be raped than a man is to be an incel.

Women are weaker

 their advantages help others more than them and their inferiorities to men benefit men more than others.

Women are not privileged by default. That is the very reason why policies were made to help them out.

For some reason these men die younger and are more likely to kill themselves statistically.

If women live longer and are happier than who is really losing even if women live very altruistic lifestyles?

Women are oppressed by default, but when they are equal on paper they become privileged by default. 

1: Women live longer and are happier.

2: Women have much easier access to sex and romance.

3: Women can acquire money from thirsty men at any time.

4: Everyone goes easier on women and sees them as more innocent by default.

5: Women are seen as oppressed, which means men are seen as oppressors, which means women can victimize men by victimizing themselves.

Affirmative action and divorce courts favoring women is inevitable because of how people are biologically wired to view women VS men once all the patriarchy that persisted before is done away with and seen as evil.

Does this mean we should try to oppress women just enough to make things equal?

No, it isn't possible to do that.

Either women are oppressed or women are privileged

and there is nothing in between because women are disadvantaged in ways that lets them be oppressed by men but advantaged in ways that makes it so once the law protects them equally, they start living life on easy mode compared to men. It is better to just let women win in this case, for the same reason it would be ridiculous to ban tall people from the NBA just because equally letting tall and short people play basketball would put the shorts at a disadvantage.