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There are three behaviors that spell success in America.

1. Graduate High School
2. Never be without a job
3. Delay having children until after marriage

These 3 behaviors might reduce poverty by 97%.
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Well stated.
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Sometimes its better to live on welfare. Not all jobs are worth the money. I imagine certain places offer horrible jobs. But of course, it depends on definition. Not everyone views success same as others.
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@Best.Korea
Your comment comes as absolutely no surprise. 
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He is absolutely right
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How are you defining success?
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No, it is not. 
It’s asinine, defeatist, victimhood mentality nonsense. 
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If I lived in southside chigaco I wouldnt want to work either
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@Dr.Franklin
You just affirmed the position stated. 
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How are you defining success?
The dictionary.com  states "the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors; the accomplishment of one's goals. the attainment of wealth, position, honors, or the like.'

Thesaurus.com says "
  • achieve.
  • benefit.
  • flourish.
  • gain.
  • get.
  • overcome.
  • prevail"
How do you define "success"?

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Who does not graduate high school? Isn't that an easy thing?
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Who does not graduate high school? Isn't that an easy thing?
About 13% of students do not graduate.

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You might do well to add.

4. Maintain good health and fitness.

Success no good if one is a fat twat with diabetes, hypertension and a heart problem.
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How are you defining success?
The dictionary.com  states "the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors; the accomplishment of one's goals. the attainment of wealth, position, honors, or the like.'

Thesaurus.com says "
  • achieve.
  • benefit.
  • flourish.
  • gain.
  • get.
  • overcome.
  • prevail"
How do you define "success"?
It seems you are defining success in strictly financial terms, as if avoiding poverty completely defines success.  I think there are other considerations such as health, happiness, love, etc.
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Okay.

I will add it .

1. Graduate High School
2. Never be without a job
3. Delay having children until after marriage
4. maintain good health and fitness


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@Sidewalker
It seems you are defining success in strictly financial terms, as if avoiding poverty completely defines success.  I think there are other considerations such as health, happiness, love, etc.
Can you formulate that into a bullet point so I can add it in as I did with zedvictor4 's comment?

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1. Graduate High School
....I'm white male who quit in 11th grade { 16 years of age{?} to make money instead, and then some and went back to get G.E.Diploma in well populated USA city divided into << poorer side of town and middle class plus side of town >> of which my family started on poorer side of town and moved to lower middle class side of town...

2. Never be without a job
......I'm white male and never been without a job, and my body is now giving out from manual labor all of my life....

3. Delay having children until after marriage
...i'm white male no biological children, and married and got step-son when he was 12 and I was 27.....

4. maintain good health and fitness
..i'm white male and have had good health and no operations, tho on currently on the cusp of needing operations and much less manual labor....

5. mental health
....i'm white male from two lower middle class working biologically white parents, who always had a job ---tho they were just functional alcoholics-- and tho I got belt whippings and spankings, I was never abused in other way ergo, I have been in good mental health all of my life tho avoided management jobs because of fear of blame { getting my head cut-off } issues learned from parents along with all of their arguing constantly....

6. learned how to read { no learning disabiliites }
..i'm white male with no learning disbililties and learned how to read with no issues and recieved and allowance that allowed me to by my collection of Doc Savage books as a child, and then a couple of Conan the Barbarian type books....

7. talents beyond manual labor ex music, acting, teaching, manager etc
..i'm white male that had none of the above......


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Thanx for the input

 behaviors that spell success in America

1. Graduate High School
2. Never be without a job
3. Delay having children until after marriage
4. maintain good health and fitness
5. maintain good mental health
6.  develop talents such as  music, acting, teaching, managerial, etc


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Be born a white male in USA or any first world country i.e. success is relative to the environment we find ourselves in.
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Be born a white male in USA or any first world country i.e. success is relative to the environment we find ourselves in.
Is that condition a "behavior"?

Our topic is "behaviors that spell success in America"
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I dunno. It is inherent, { apriori } consideration for all of you five or more points. I dunno. Sorry, just trying to be wholisitically considerate.
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Here is an update

 behaviors that spell success in America

1. Graduate High School
2. Never be without a job
3. Delay having children until after marriage
4. maintain good health and fitness
5. maintain good mental health
6.  develop talents such as  music, acting, teaching, managerial, etc
7. Avoid unlawful activities
8. Develop and use social skills and empathy
 

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I think number 6 is unnecessary.

Plus, I would change number 2 with "work hard and save hard". It's not enough to have a job.
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Success can be defined in many ways, but with that said doing these 3 things will increase your chances of achieving at what ever you define as success by 100 fold.  I define success as not relying on govt for anything other than infrastructure and national defense, which is its intended purpose. It was never intended to pay for your rent food and electricity bill.