How TRUE Christian men can find a 2nd class Christian woman for their wife!
As many long-timers of they esteemed Religion Forum knows, is that I have had 9 wives over my lifetime and counting. I have had this many wives because I was just following Jesus command in being "fruitful and multiplying" offspring to be Christian soldiers for the cause (Genesis 1:28)!
But, in doing so, many of my wives life ambition was to just be able to "sit up" for the most part because I was in sexual union all the time with them in following Jesus' aforementioned command.
Here are the direct and inspired words of Jesus as God within the scriptures, in how the TRUE Christian man is to actually find a 2nd class Christian woman to take in marriage:
1. This was a hard one, no pun intended, but Jesus’ inspired words said if you cut off 200 foreskins of your future father-in-law’s enemies, you would get his daughter: “ Wherefore David arose and went, he and his men, and slew of the Philistines two hundred men; and David brought their foreskins, and they gave them in full tale to the king, that he might be the king's son in law. And Saul gave him Michal his daughter to wife.”(1 Samuel 18:27)
2. Go and hide in a vineyard, citrus grove, apple farm, etc., where there is a party, and when the woman come out to dance, GRAB ONE and take her off to be your wife: “Go and hide in the vineyards and watch. When the young women of Shiloh come out to join in the dancing, rush from the vineyards and each of you seize one of them to be your wife." (Judges 21:20-21)
3. Find an attractive prisoner of war, bring her home, shave her head, trim her nails, and give her new clothes, and after her mourning, then she's your wife: "If you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you may take her as your wife. Bring her into your home and have her shave her head, trim her nails and put aside the clothes she was wearing when captured. After she has lived in your house and mourned her father and mother for a full month, then you may go to her and be her husband and she shall be your wife." (Deuteronomy 21:11-13)
4. Find a good looking prostitute, and just marry her, simple enough: "When the LORD first began speaking to Israel through Hosea, he said to him, “Go and marry a prostitute, so that some of her children will be conceived in prostitution. (Hosea 1:2)
5. Find a man with seven daughters, and impress him by watering his flock, and then he should give you one of his daughters, praise: "Now the priest of Midian had seven daughters; and they came to draw water and filled the troughs to water their father’s flock. Then the shepherds came and drove them away, but Moses stood up and helped them and watered their flock. When they came to Reuel their father, he said, “Why have you come back so soon today?” So they said, “An Egyptian delivered us from the hand of the shepherds, and what is more, he even drew the water for us and watered the flock.” He said to his daughters, “Where is he then? Why is it that you have left the man behind? Invite him to have something to eat.” Moses was willing to dwell with the man, and he gave his daughter Zipporah to Moses" (Hosea 2:16-21)
6. Purchase a piece of property, and get a woman as part of the deal, can it get better than this godly notion?: "Then said Boaz, What day thou buyest the field of the hand of Naomi, thou must buy it also of Ruth the Moabitess, the wife of the dead, to raise up the name of the dead upon his inheritance." (Ruth 4:5)
7. Have our God Jesus create a wife for you while you sleep, but this is going to cost you a rib. "The LORD God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man." (Genesis 2:22-23)
8. Agree to work seven years in exchange for a woman's hand in marriage, not bad of a proposition: " Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my relative, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. And Leah’s eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful of form and face. Now Jacob loved Rachel, so he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than to give her to another man; stay with me.” So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.(Genesis 29:15-20)
9. Become the emperor of a huge nation and hold a beauty contest for a wife: “Let the king appoint overseers in all the provinces of his kingdom that they may gather every beautiful young virgin to the citadel of Susa, to the harem, into the custody of Hegai, the king’s eunuch, who is in charge of the women; and let their cosmetics be given them. “Then let the young lady who pleases the king be queen in place of Vashti.” And the matter pleased the king, and he did accordingly." (Esther 2:3-4)
10. When you see a woman you like, go home and tell your parents to get her for you: "Then Samson went down to Timnah and saw a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters of the Philistines. So he came back and told his father and mother, “I saw a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters of the Philistines; now therefore, get her for me as a wife.” Then his father and his mother said to him, “Is there no woman among the daughters of your relatives, or among all our people, that you go to take a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?” But Samson said to his father, “Get her for me, for she looks good to me.” (Judges 14:1-3)
11. Kill any husband and take his wife as David set an example to do, praise: "One evening David got up from his bed and strolled around on the roof of the palace. And from the roof he saw a woman bathing—a very beautiful woman. So David sent and inquired about the woman, and he was told, “This is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite.”.......... The next morning David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it with Uriah. In the letter he wrote: “Put Uriah at the front of the fiercest battle; then withdraw from him, so that he may be struck down and killed.” ........... "When Uriah’s wife heard that her husband was dead, she mourned for him. And when the time of mourning was over, David had her brought to his house, and she became his wife and bore him a son." (2 Samuel:2-3; 14-15; 26-27)
12. Wait for your brother to die, then take his widow: “If brothers dwell together, and one of them dies and has no son, the wife of the dead man shall not be married outside the family to a stranger. Her husband's brother shall go in to her and take her as his wife and perform the duty of a husband's brother to her." (Deuteronomy 25:5)
13. Don't be so picky in choosing the right woman, make up for quality with quantity: "King Solomon, however, loved many foreign women besides Pharaoh’s daughter—Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians and Hittites. They were from nations about which the Lord had told the Israelites, “You must not intermarry with them, because they will surely turn your hearts after their gods.” Nevertheless, Solomon held fast to them in love. He had seven hundred wives of royal birth and three hundred concubines, and his wives led him astray." (1 Kings 11:1-3)
As all TRUE Christian men should know, is that the woman is a mere second class citizen in the eyes of Jesus within the scriptures, therefore when marrying a Christian woman, make sure she understands the following Jesus inspired passages before you tie the knot!
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5:22-24)
In the passage above, when it concludes that wives are to submit themselves to their husbands, and that said husband is the head of the wife, make sure your wife understands the term "EVERYTHING" in submission to you, therefore, there are NO HEADACHES from her in not wanting sexual union with her at any given time, GET IT?
When you and your wife go to church on Saturday or Sunday, make sure SHE KEEPS HER MOUTH SHUT and is there only to be your partner in marriage, as the Jesus inspired passage says below:
"Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church." (I Corinthians 14:34-35)
Furthermore, after marriage to the 2nd class Christian woman, and if applicable, remember these JESUS INSPIRED passages shown below:
“It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.” (Proverbs 21:9)
“A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike;” (Proverbs 27:15)
“It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.” (Proverbs 21:19)
“It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.” (Proverbs 25:24)
“A quarrelsome wife is as annoying as constant dripping on a rainy day. Stopping her complaints is like trying to stop the wind or trying to hold something with greased hands.” (Proverbs 27:15-16)
“It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.” (Proverbs 21:19)
“It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.” (Proverbs 25:24)
“A quarrelsome wife is as annoying as constant dripping on a rainy day. Stopping her complaints is like trying to stop the wind or trying to hold something with greased hands.” (Proverbs 27:15-16)
Since the man is the head of every wife (Ephesians 5:22-24), then remember this following image in this link and show it to your wife when ever she gets out of line, praise Jesus! https://www.imagebam.com/view/MEK7YJ6
Oh, one more thing that you have to take into account if your wife is not a virgin after marriage, is this godly scenario!
"But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you." (Deut. 22:20-21)
Well, this about raps it up relative to the 2nd class woman as depicted within Jesus' inspired words within the Bible as explicitly shown in this post, and where this total information is to be used for any TRUE Christian man regarding marriage, praise Jesus!
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