You're neither correct fully nor incorrect fully when you say this:
And to further drive home that you are being arbitrary, you are only accusing me of being prideful because you are trying to exploit what you believe are my standards. You yourself do not share these standards.
To me, pride's a fantastic thing and honestly I think humility is the surest way to end up suicidal or with chronic anxiety at the very least. You should feel like a powerful beast if a masculine person or as a very desirable and intelligent woman if a feminine person. I honestly love pride personally and I myself am not gay but I don't think pride is a bad thing when it's for the right reasons.
Your pride neither fills you with confidence nor does it help the others around you aspire to be you, it simply is toxic and makes you angry and envious while others are like 'why tf is he so confrontational?'. I don't care if you are proud or not, I just thought the irony was most hilarious. I was genuinely saying you are prideful though, it wasn't solely about exploitation.