You did your best to say that self is a possibly nonreal thing which you do not understand well.
Am I misunderstanding any of the salient points?
I would alter
"You did your best to say that self is a possibly nonreal thing which you do not understand well." to
"You did your best to say that self is possibly a nonreal thing which you do not understand well."
By 'Possibly' I meant 'Seems most likely to me, but I only learned about brains and philosophy off the internet so wtf do I know".
Anyway, given that you are not a philosopher with his professional reputation to lose, do you think the self is real? You are a great one for fence-sitting. but it's ok to wrong, you know. It's not as if anybody cares what we say or think....!