Thoughts 1
I don't know, they 'did have other Gods including male Gods for wisdom of a sort I think.
Women were still priestesses and oracles.
Many women still took care of the household actions and chores I'd think,
Many men maybe took counsel from their wives in private.
Maybe different types of war and wisdom,
Weaving for example, seems a more womanly type of invention (Historically due to norms at the time)
Greek mythology
"Apollo, god of oracles, knowledge, civilization, music, healing, education, and youth
Athena, Olympian goddess of wisdom, civilization, weaving, and war strategy
Coeus, Titan of the inquisitive mind, his name meaning "query" or "questioning". He is the grandfather of Apollo.
Metis, the Titan associated most closely with wisdom and the mother of Athena, whose name in Ancient Greek described a combination of wisdom and cunning.[12][13]
Mnemosyne, Titan of memory, and one of the deities worshipped by the Cult of Asclepius in hopes that she would help supplicants remember visions[14]"
Greek god of war and courage.
Sounds a bit more Masculine violence killing rage kind of guy,
Than thinking and planning war, Feminine?
Thoughts 2
Gods are supposed to be mighty and all, Goddesses would be the same, maybe not deities you'd want to make angry, even if they were women.
Maybe Athena a bit of an exception, masculine woman.
Guys back then didn't really go for guys,
But feminine guys more open season for some people,
Exceptions.
Thoughts 3
I read some Wikipedia's about Athens, talked a lot about women staying in the house avoiding men.
Article also argued such might have been more common to the upper class nobles, than the lower class working people.
And nobles being the ones writing more about their lifestyles.
Like thinking all Americans live like their 1%.