The female on a pedestal.

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For those of you that are married, unmarried and have a viewpoint on this, I have the following questions.

You that has what you may call a "significant other", first of all, what is your definition of a simp?

Do you say this person is your "better half"?

Do you say or think you're nothing or you are not what you are without this person?

Is this person your other half?

Do you believe in "happy wife, happy life"?

If you are a married man, does your wife obey you?

Are you the head of your wife?

Do you correct her?

Do you lead, guide and protect her?

Are you submissive and subordinate to her?

Why or why not?

To the unmarried, what are your thoughts if you were married, what is your approach?

Are weddings pure materialistic shows?

This would include wearing what's on your finger.

Do you believe in working in the same space and place as your spouse?

Are you the type finding yourself constantly looking to occupy attention, yours and or the other person's attention?

Are there dates and anniversaries you use as a remainder to occasionally demonstrate love or how you feel?

Just look at these answers and things for what they are and just realize how much you may act based on culture, custom, tradition versus personal earnest sincerity.

One example of custom, a hallmark card.


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@Mall
what is your definition of a simp?
No.

Do you say this person is your "better half"?
Yes, lying is an evolutionary advantage.

Do you say or think you're nothing or you are not what you are without this person?
Person can masturbate, even tho its not as good.

Do you believe in "happy wife, happy life"?
No, thats the opposite of a happy life.

Are weddings pure materialistic shows?
Giving meaning to meaningless.
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@Mall
To the unmarried, what are your thoughts if you were married, what is your approach?
To not get married until long after the honeymoon phase.


Are weddings pure materialistic shows?
They can be. Anywhere strong emotions are involved some people lose financial responsibility (if they had any to begin with). Also with children and pets.


This would include wearing what's on your finger.
Excessively expensive jewelry is irrational, but gold and diamonds are extremely stable materials in Earth's biosphere so I understand the symbolism.


Do you believe in working in the same space and place as your spouse?
Many people are afraid to negotiate roles openly for fear of giving offense. This often leads to falling out and even more often if you interact with the same person in different roles the vagueness causes dysfunctional bleed over.

This is true of family and friends as co-workers (or worse subordinate positions) as well.

People who can control their pride and know how to debate are far more likely to be able to handle role switching and do what you describe with stability.


Are you the type finding yourself constantly looking to occupy attention, yours and or the other person's attention?
No.
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40 years an equal partnership.
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So I take it your not actually the head of your wife .
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They normally come with their own head.
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Another words equal partnership right, ok .
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lol
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So I take it your not actually the head of your wife .
Are you the head of your wife?

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@Mall
Most definitely not.
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Yes.