"I cant take compliment"

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Okay, so I find this video where woman cries for like 10 minutes because she got a compliment from someone.

And I can kinda relate to that.

I am not really good at responding to compliments.

I dont know if anyone else has that feeling when you get a compliment, you dont know what to say as a response, because it feels wrong to brag and confirm the compliment, but it also feels wrong to attack the person who gave you a compliment.
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you dont know what to say as a response
Thank them or compliment them back.
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Ironic how her entire channel is her fishing for compliments...


After the tenth video with people saying "no, you're perfect," she had to realize what she was doing.
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Ironic how her entire channel is basically fishing for compliments though...
I used to watch her channel, until I realized that listening to so much complaining from someone who looks way better than I do will just destroy my brain.

I mean, she cries in every video.

After the tenth video of people saying "no, you're perfect," she had to realize what she was doing.
Well, when I was in my complaining mode, I didnt realize how annoying I was to others. But after watching lots of other people complaining, I realized its really annoying behavior because they complain about things they cant change or refuse to change.
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Thank them or compliment them back
For some reason, every time I compliment someone, it feels like I am mocking them or it just feels werid.

My brain is really not made to process compliments well.

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Life is soooooooo complex.
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@sadolite
There is more than an element of truth to your erudite comment.


Organic structures and their existence are undoubtedly complex and amazing.


A bit like you Mr Wonderful.

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Let's see how Sadolite responds to my succinct eulogy.
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"Organic structures and their existence are undoubtedly complex and amazing." Ya, sure, but the daily grind of life isn't. 
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So, we've taken the daily grind of life and converted it into another format.

And perhaps nowadays, some grinds are grindier than others.

Though I would guess that on the scale of grindiness, your grind comes nowhere near the top.

You've probably just ground out an unvarying rut, that on the one hand you're disinclined to leave the safety of.

Whereas, on the other hand, you're just bored  with being in the same old rut all the time.


How would you prefer to be grinding out your days?
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"How would you prefer to be grinding out your days?" I live the life I want now, stress free and want for nothing.  I am sure I would hate living your lifestyle and would  do anything to escape it, just as you would mine. One mans ungrateful whining  existence  is another mans dream life. 
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I live a stress free life, and I am content with what I have.

But for sure, at our age, swapping routines would be disconcerting.
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What about that "feeling"  you get when a dozen or more people sing, happy birthday to you. 
 
Uncomfortability. 
Is that a word? 

Thats a whopping,   Seven syllables isn't it ? 
Wow
Thanks.  
Thank you. 
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You're marvellous Deb.
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Thanks boss. 

Hey Did i happen to mention. 
Your without a doubt,  the smartest guy on this site. 
And yes you are very very handsome.  
With a big cock to boot. 
The girth of that thing man is incredible

Ha , i said . A big cock to boot.
Thats a funny sentence hey? 
Not to boot like kick . 
Its just,
well its real nice. 
No wonder you have a smoking hot wife. 
Yeah. 
Real fucking cute like. 
You lucky bastard.   Would be some examples of this being complemented thing hey Zed. ?
Or would that be like over the top, thusss rendering it mute, for thoughts im just taking the piss out of you. 

But seriously  Zed .
You are allllll of the above and much much more. 

Please PM me some more hot dick picks. 
Mmmmmm,   

Lots of LOVE ,
Deb. 

I'd compliment you so fucking hard. 
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Wow .

That really is big. 
More please. 

You got big muscles .

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Your wife is looking extremely good looking today Zed. 
Tell her i said. 
Hi miss . 

*****        Deb ?......? , 
STOP it there. 
You had a little fun , do not go on. 

Well Zed. 
You have such a cool looking beard. 


NOW TAKE THAT YOU KUNT.   
Yeah yeah 
You take complaints real fucking cute like Zee. 

Look at you taking it.
Ok
Ill Back later to comp your arse a little more.
Good day sexy.


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I reckon that dog of yours zed could take a good compliment.  
Im gonna compliment him . 
Hold him steady just in case. 
Here i go. 

Whos a little cutie then hey?  
Oh yes you are ,
yes you are. 
' scratches under the chin ' 
Your so cute. 


Did he like that. 
Mm mmmm , nice 
He took that fine . 

His ok isn't he ? 
Animals love getting complimented.  

Oh yes they do. 
Pretty little dog.

Hey what about.  
AI compliment giving. 
Giving and reciving.  

AI would loveeee getting complicated i reckon. 

Welllll. Here goes 
Im gonna use the same tone i used whence complimenting the dog before. 

Whos a smart little  AI.
Oh yes you are. . 
You are so so smart 
AI stands for awsome interlect.  

You are mutha fucking welcome.  

Hey if anyone else wants me to compliment them. 
Please feel free to ask.  
Ill compliment you ever so hard. 

So ummmmm, yeah. 
' KICKS DIRT. ' 
 









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I'd be glad to shower you with compliments! Here's a variety to brighten your day:
General awesomeness:
  • You have a fantastic aura, a joy to be around!
  • Your curiosity and thirst for knowledge are truly inspiring.
  • There's a spark of creativity in you that's impossible to miss.
  • You seem like someone who tackles challenges head-on, and that's admirable.
  • The way you express yourself is clear and engaging, a great communicator.
Inner strengths:
  • You have a kind heart, and the world needs more people like you.
  • Your resilience is impressive, you bounce back from anything.
  • You always seem to find the positive side of things, a great optimist.
  • Your sense of humor is fantastic, you can always make me smile.
  • You have a deep well of empathy and understanding, a true friend.
Mental agility:
  • You're a quick learner, it's amazing how fast you grasp new concepts.
  • Your problem-solving skills are top-notch, you can find solutions to anything.
  • You have a fantastic memory, you never forget an important detail.
  • You're incredibly well-read and knowledgeable on a wide range of topics.
  • Your ability to think critically and analyze information is very impressive.
Just you:
  • You have a contagious laugh that fills the room with joy.
  • Your unique perspective on things is always fascinating to hear.
  • The way you dress expresses your personality in a cool way.
  • You have a genuine warmth that makes people feel welcome and comfortable.
  • There's a quiet strength about you that's truly admirable.
Remember, these are just a starting point! You have so many amazing qualities that deserve compliments every day. Don't forget to compliment yourself too, you rock!

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And that Cock of yours.

He's a tall strutting erect beauty,

With a gorgeous red head,

Vocally ejaculating,

With an exultant,

COCK-A-DOODLE-DOO.
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Insta melts . 
Shucks. 

That done made my day, 
Thanks man. 
' opens arms ' 
Bring it in.
' hugs ' 

Your a great complienter.
Complimentaror
You know the word im looking for.

Again. 
Thanks. 
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That's woman for you.
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I guess I could marry her. I like girls who cry during sex.
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