From what I can conclude, facts should remain the main point of any discussion.
In discussion, there are:
1. Facts which prove the topic
2. Assumption A which disproves the topic
3. Assumption B which disproves assumption A
4. Assumption that both A and B are false, leaving only facts
5. Assumption that both A and B are true, but negate each other, leaving only facts.
Going by number of options, there are:
1. Facts
2. Assumptions which disprove topic
3. Assumptions which prove topic
4. Assumption that 2 and 3 are false assumptions
5. Assumption that 2 and 3 are true assumptions, but negate each other
So we can see that by mere number of options, assumptions which disprove topic are only 1/5, where all other options support topic by upholding facts are 4/5.
So how does it happen that 1/5 assumption ends up dominating over 4/5, carrying conversation into meaningless rant?
Thats because 1/5 often gives enough doubt to actually be considered, and because it creates a hole in the story which facts cannot explain or cover.
What also happens is that facts get turned into assumptions.
Because every fact must be observable to be verified, it already follows that non-observable facts are non-verified.
And even observable facts have weaknesses, apparently depending on an assumption that what you see is really there and not an illusion.
Also assuming that conclusion from observation is correct and not itself an assumption.
So really, most discussions tend to go to area of assumptions.
But there is a way to counter assumptions, and that is by using lots of facts.
Even if opponent keeps using assumptions, there is nothing which says that those assumptions are correct.
But facts are correct, because most people assume that what we observe is what exists.
So facts do tend to help change people's mind, where assumptions always leave conversation at nowhere.
However, assumptions will always be the main weapon of those who do not have facts.