Dont make attachments to anything - Your attachments are your weaknesses

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I saw many people who:

1. Decided to have some goal
2. Failed to achieve that goal
3. Got badly disappointed

As we can see, the disappointment could have been avoided if step 1 was never taken.

In other words, dont have goals or attachments.

I know that your attachments are your weakness.

Think of it this way.

If you are addicted to drugs, you will suffer if you dont have drugs.

But if you never get addicted to drugs, you dont suffer when drugs are no longer available.

An attachment is a need for something. When you create a need for something, you will suffer when you lose that something.
But if you have no need for something, you will not suffer if that something is no longer there.

So,

the pain from losing something
is created by our need for that something.

So to remove pain, one must remove need.

But how does one remove need?

Does one simply accept different needs that are easier to satisfy?
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Some goals are bad, but others are good.

I made a goal once.  It was:

1. Decided to get Eagle Scout
2. Succeeded in achieving that goal
3. Felt very victorious


Make good goals; not bad ones.
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Instead of having 1 dog for 15 years . 
I get a brand new puppy every year. 
15 puppies is so much more rewarding then one. 
Puppies are super cute hey. 
Killing your 1 year old dog every year builds up your detachments levels. 
Its a win win. 
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We do that with Koalas.

More money in stuffed Koalas.

I guess you sell your dogs to Korean restaurants.
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Is that you dog Zed ? 

His a nice little fella isnt he.
Jack Russell or a silky ? 
He is a terrier,  thay i know. 

Thats why i didnt jump your side fence fhe other day. 
We where talking about fight or flight and i was thinking,  if i jump you fence and the little fella comes at me. 
Well flight kicks in. 

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What about the opposite. 
Like .
Instead of having 1 girlfriend,  you have 4 .
Thus " attachment "  divides. 

It instantly releases 

I was totally attachecd to girl #1 
Then come girl  #2 thus spending less time with  #1
The along come # 3 and she was something. 
She blew alllll the attachment  involved with #1 and #2. 
Buttttt. 
Attachment started growing on the #3. 
Out of  the fear of full blown attachment.
 Girl #4. 
Girls #4 and #2  take down #3 attachment level and put it in a safe spot. 

If u Equal out ya Time alotments. You can get ya attachie levels on a even keel
Keil .
Kelll .
I cant spell that .

You really have to have more then one , of everthing. 
I can't see any bad in having 4 sets of parents. 
Especially at Christmas. 

But ummmn yeah.
Attachments for pussies. 
Well its for the week . 

Imagine having 4 good freinds . 
Thats right . I said it. 
4 good freinds. 
I'm going a little over the top now. 
No one has 4 good freinds

Attachment divides aslong as you add or multiply should i say.  
A ÷ aslong as long as u × 
But
HANG THE FUCK ON . 
Subtraction of Attachments.
Fuck thats alot to work out now. 
Into "How they are subtracted" 
Maybe its just.

You don't want MAIN attachments. 
This goes on forever. 
I m not getting attached to this anymore 

Im gonna pass.


Good game.
Good game. 

 






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Jack Russell x Cairn Terrier.

I thought that he was chasing cats. 

Come to the front door next time.
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Your attachment should be figuring out how to make a lot of money.